選ばれる人になるために

あなたはどんな人と結婚したいですか？

 

優しい人。身長170㎝以上の人。仕事ができる人。年収600万以上の人。共働きしてくれる人。かわいい人。お料理がうまい人。笑顔が似合う人。家事を手伝ってくれる人。子育てに協力的な人…etc

条件がもりもりになってきました…

 

「あなたはそんな素敵な方に見染められるようにどんな努力をなさっているのかしら？」

 

著書『選ばれる女におなりなさい』の中でデヴィ夫人はそうおっしゃっています。

どんな高望みをしても構わない。でも、まずは自分の境遇を受け入れ、自分を高める努力をすることが大切ではないか、と。

そうですね。確かに、夫人のおっしゃる通りです。

 

婚活では、ついつい、お相手に理想の条件を求めてしまいがちです。

けれど、お相手を自分の価値観や好みで選んでいるだけでは、前には進めません。

選ぶだけではなく、どうしたら素敵な人に「選ばれる人」になるかを考えることがとても大切です。

どんなに自分がいいと思っても、お相手にいいと思ってもらえなければ所詮は片思い。それでは「お見合い」までも到達しません。

では一体、どんな写真やプロフィールなら「会ってみたい」と思ってもらえるのでしょうか。あなたはどんなプロフィールの人に会いたいと思いますか？

 

まずは、清潔感！　そして笑顔！！

優しそう。誠実そう。

そんな写真が好まれます。

過度に頑張りすぎる必要はありません。でも、普段通りの自分ではダメです。見てもらう、選んでもらうための努力は必須。もちろん、プロフィールも同様です。

みなさんそうやって真剣に結婚に向かって活動しているのですから、真剣に立ち向かわなければ成婚には近づけません。仲人の意見を素直に聞いて試してみる。客観的な意見を取り入れること、それも選ばれる人になる近道の一つです。

あなたにはあなたのいいところがあります。そこを一緒に伸ばしましょう。

 

さて、いよいよ迫ってきました平成の終わりとゴールデンウイーク。

１０連休の方もいらっしゃるのではないでしょうか。ご予定は決まっていますか？

一人で家電量販店に行くも、もちろんよし。

でも、せっかくなら仲人に話を聞いてみませんか？

面談・無料カウンセリングの希望は、お問合せより、面談希望日を２日記載してメールにてご連絡ください。

写真撮影にお相手選び、そしてお見合い…。お休みだからこそのすることはたくさんあります。せっかくの連休ですもの、有意義な婚活時間にいたしましょう！

今からはじめたら…、もしかして令和元年婚になっちゃうかも？！

本当ですよ♡

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